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5 Tips on How to Get an Offer Accepted in a Competitive Seller’s Market
The competition for good homes is fierce, no thanks to historically low inventory and fluctuating interest rates. To help you navigate these waters, I’ve broken down the five most effective strategies for buyers today. If you’re wondering how to get an offer accepted in a competitive seller’s market, these five tips are your roadmap to success.
Summary
To increase your chances of success, remember these five pillars
- Get a fully underwritten pre-approval.
- Move fast when you find the right home.
- Offer flexible terms and clean negotiations.
- Work with a high-volume local expert.
- Be prepared to compromise on non-essentials.
Buying a home right now is tough, but it’s not impossible. By following these steps, you’ll be in the best possible position to win the keys to your new home.
1. Get Fully Pre-Approved (Not Just Pre-Qualified)
The absolute first step is preparation. In a market where sellers receive a dozen offers in 48 hours, they don’t have time for “maybe.” There is a vast difference between a basic pre-qualification and a true pre-approval:
- Pre-Qualification: An online estimate based on unverified numbers you submitted. It carries very little weight.
- Full Pre-Approval: This means a loan officer has taken a complete application, verified your income and assets, and run your credit.
More importantly, you want your file to be fully underwritten. When an underwriter gives you the “thumbs up,” it signals to the seller that your financing is solid and that you are essentially as good as a cash buyer. This is a massive competitive advantage.
2. Act Quickly and Decisively
In a seller’s market, the “sleep on it” rule can be a deal-killer. Good homes do not stay on the market for long. If you tour a property and it checks your boxes, you must act immediately.
Over the last several years, we’ve seen multiple offers on almost every high-quality listing. If you hesitate, someone else will jump in, and you’ll be left with “buyer’s remorse” for a house you never even got to bid on. Be decisive and submit your offer as soon as you know it’s the right one.
3. Be Flexible with Your Negotiation Strategy
As a buyer in this environment, you must recognize that the seller holds most of the power. This isn’t the time to be demanding or “picky” with minor details. To make your offer more attractive, consider:
- Reducing Contingencies: If your state allows, making your offer “cleaner” by shortening or removing certain contingencies can move you to the top of the pile.
- Limiting Repair Requests: Sellers don’t want to deal with a long list of minor repairs. Be prepared to buy “as-is” or to ask only about major structural issues.
- Flexible Closing Dates: Ask the seller for their preferred timeline and aim to align it.

4. Partner with an Experienced Local Real Estate Agent
You want a local expert who lives and breathes your specific market. Why?
- Pocket Listings: Experienced local agents often know about houses before they hit the open market.1
- Reputation: Listing agents prefer to work with buyer’s agents they know are professional and can close the deal.
- Negotiation Skills: A “friend of a friend” who only does one or two deals a year won’t have the shark-like negotiation skills needed to win a bidding war.
5. Have Realistic Expectations
You are unlikely to find a home that checks off 100% of your wish list in a competitive market. It’s essential to prioritize your “must-haves” versus your “nice-to-haves.”
If you absolutely need three bedrooms, stick to that. But if you’re holding out for a specific countertop material or a four-car garage, you might be looking forever. Understand that you may need to make compromises to get your foot in the door of homeownership. You can always renovate a kitchen, but you can’t change the market’s inventory.
If you’re ready to get pre-approved or have questions about the local market, I’m here to help. Let’s get you started on your home-buying journey!
